If you are looking for any kind of information about this Balikabayan Privilege you found the right post. Don't think too much. LOL. My husband was. He was even saying he would tell the guy that he wanted the Balikbayan stamp. I told him that if they see us together and know that we are married, automatically you will get it. Well, like I said, he didn't have to. They stamped it without him asking. Basically once you are married to a Filipino/Filipina when you travel into the country WITH your spouse you will be granted this privilege. It's not a visa, they will stamp your passport with this automatically if they see that you are travelling with your filipino spouse. I don't think you need to ask, but wouldn't hurt to ask either.